I am having an "ah-ha" moment.  I just figured it out… it is not that I am behind with technological advances and updates, it is that Tim keeps me in the dark ages.   I ask him how to do something and he always wants to do it himself, being worried that I would "mess" something up.  ARGH!  I do have my own laptop, actually maybe it isn’t really mine-he just let’s me think it is mine but he really has the control-and somehow I manage to organize all of our finances.  I can do that!  I love to do that! 

Just a moment ago I wanted to buy some music and I asked him how to go about doing this (do I even dare admit that I had to ask?).  He did give it a whirl, asked a few questions but determined it would be best if I wait until he can SHOW me or do it for me.  I Promise that I am a quick learner, I am a smart cookie, but for some reason (when it comes to computers) I am not a trusted cookie! 

I was talking about being grateful for music… I found the songs I was looking for:  The Hat by Ingrid Michaelson and Bubbly by Colbie Caillat.  Those songs just seem to strike something in me!